After many try and more than many errors .. I´m able to reveive 256 bytes instead of 20 .. but in these 256 bytes are only 20 byte long pieces of the original message.
Send thee lines like "ab<30 characters long>/r/n"
Receive 60 bytes like "ab..<only first 20 bytes>ab..<only first 20 bytes>ab..<only first 20 bytes>"
And my Smartphone receives the full sent characters seperated like "ab<30 characters long>/r/n", "ab<30 characters long>/r/n", "ab<30 characters long>/r/n"
I ended now up with chunking my message into 20 byte pieces before sending and putting the message together after receiving.